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But things often go against expectations. No matter how good a school is, a good teacher is not as important as the parents' home education. Because from the day your child was born, you are your child ’s first teacher, and your preaching is your child ’s life lesson.
Where is the root of education? ---- Family
When it comes to education, we naturally think of schools, primary schools, secondary schools, and universities.
In fact, since the child fell to the ground, they have come to their school with joy, that is, their happy home, and our parents are their first teachers.
Therefore, if we want to build a building for children's education, we must lay a good foundation for education and take root in education. Then we ask-where is the root of education?
In fact, the root of education is not in schools or in social counselling organizations. The root of education is home.
Where is the root of education? ---- Family
When we felt that "it is easy to have a child, but it is difficult to raise a child", we have realized: another burden of raising children-family education.
The first division of children's growth is from the "home". Otherwise, why are all the little angels given by God, and why some children are outstanding in all aspects, while others are mediocre?
In fact, as parents must regard "home" as the motive force for the healthy growth of their children, they must discover the talents of their children from the details of family life and guide them in a timely manner.
What is the way to achieve children's education? -- Family
Home is the soil for nurturing children
The three words to say that a wise person raises a child are:
The first sentence: "Children, parents are not capable, you have to rely on yourself." Do not do it, return the responsibility to the child, so that the child has a sense of responsibility.
The second sentence: "Child, be a man in advance, you must not do things that hurt others." Talk about morality, tell the child the standard of life.
The third sentence: "Child, spread your hands and break, it's really impossible, come home and eat." Selfless love, endless love!
The same problem, but the three sentences that someone said are quite different:
The first sentence: "Baby, you just have to study hard, other things parents and mothers can help you get it!" Deprived children of their rights of responsibility, and cultivated children without responsibility.
The second sentence: "Baby, you can't lose out when you go out, others must fight you back!" The basic principles of life are not taught correctly, and they may cultivate "deficient" children.
The third sentence: "I tell you, if you don't study hard, don't come to me when you grow up without food!" Conditional love is not true love at all.
What is the way to achieve children's education? -- Family
Parents are a profession
The roots of education extend from home, and the key to the operation of the home lies in the parents.
I have been thinking about what kind of name and responsibility of "parents" to use to describe the image accurately and accurately. I accidentally saw a personal signature of a netizen.-Parents are a profession, and my eyes are bright. On my mind.
Can you lift the glorious and heavy title of "parents", why not need to be as awesome and responsible as you are about a profession?
The words "warm, harmonious, and intimate" are the most valuable "nutrients" in children's growth;
Parents love each other, share responsibility, and keep pace with education. It is the best environment for children to grow up.
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If this is the case, I don't think there will ever be any more statements about "career success, family failure", at least less.
Where is the root of education? ---Family
Parents to be children's lifelong teachers
It is often said that parents are the children's first teachers; I would say that parents are to be children's teachers for life.
There is a philosophical story in the West about a "father in the eyes of a son":
7 years old: "My dad is amazing, he knows everything!"
14 years old: "It seems that sometimes is not right ..."
20 years old: "Dad is a bit out of date, and his theory is incompatible with the times."
25 years old: "'Old man' knows nothing and is stale."
35 years old: "If Dad was as sophisticated as I was then, he must be a millionaire today ..."
45 years old: "I don't know whether to discuss with the" old man ", maybe he can help me to come up with an idea ..."
55 years old: "It's a pity that Dad has died. To be honest, his opinion is quite brilliant!"
60 years old: "Poor father! You are an omniscient scholar! Unfortunately I know you too late!"
Life is a hard-to-read book. When children reach middle age, or when they reach old age, they will think more of their parents, and feel the impact of their parents on their lives, so that they consciously or unconsciously imitate the way parents educated themselves to educate themselves child.
What do these list say? What I want to say is that a responsible parent must not only do a good job of the child's "first teacher", but also prepare to do a good job of the child's "lifetime teacher".
